18+ · consenting adults · free to start ·

ABDL caregiver & little relationship manager, 18+

Your rules, your bedtime, and someone to hold them.

Write down how you want to be looked after. Rules, routines, chores, bedtime and a daily tracker, all in one place. Hand the lot to your caregiver, or to an AI caregiver you name yourself, or keep it to yourself.

A pen name and a password gets you in. Your real name is never asked for. Everything you write exports in one tap, and you can delete the account yourself from inside the app.

House rulesAsk before getting out of bedWater before the first coffeeTell me the truth the first timeHELD BY YOUR CAREGIVER · TICK, THEN ASK

What lives here

One place that already knows what a caregiver is.

The setup wizard asks about your dynamic on its first screen, and every page after that is built around the answer.

Rules, and who gets to change them.

Write your own set, or hand them to your caregiver. While they hold them your copy turns read-only and says so in amber. You can still tick them off, and you can ask for a change without leaving the page. Breaking one can carry a consequence they set, and the wizard writes the first draft with you.

  • Rules with a schedule every morning, weekdays, always
  • Rewards and punishments chosen together, sent live
  • Chores with a due time and a streak that notices
  • Bedtime that locks the screen at the hour you both agreed

No caregiver yet? It still works.

Most accounts here run without a partner. You can write your own rules with real consequences you cannot quietly undo, or name an AI caregiver and let her run bedtime, check in on you during the day and remember what you told her last week.

“Lights off at 10:30. Yes, even on Fridays. I will check.”Sample. Your AI caregiver, named by you

The tracker is where you end up every day.

Changes, bottles, naps, mood, potty, and the diaper stash with its real cost per day. Your caregiver sees the same log the moment you tap it. The Baby Monitor lets them listen in from the next room or the next country, and the journal stays private unless you share an entry.

  • Tracker changes, bottles, naps
  • Journal yours unless shared
  • Baby Monitor audio and typed notes
  • Weekly report for both of you

A note from the maker

Hello. I build CaregiverBabyHub on my own. I write the database migrations, the newspaper's editor's letter, and the reply you get from the support page.

I started it in spring 2026 because everything I was using had been borrowed from somewhere else. A habit app with no idea why the streak matters. A pinned message in a chat server that somebody had to keep scrolling back to. I wanted a place where my rules were the whole point of the software.

A free account is the real thing, with the rules, the tracker and most of the world in it. If something is wrong, tell me and I will fix it.

the makerWrite to me

The world around it

Twenty-two places share your one account.

Here are the ones with their own front door. A daycare with a timetable, a community newspaper, a library members send each other to, a parlor with a real matchmaker. The rest live inside the app.

Every one of these opens with the account you make here. The next places are on the what's coming page, with a date on them. The phone side is a real app you get from us, not from a store, and on iPhone it installs from Safari.

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Free, and it stays free.

Rules, schedule, routines, chores, the tracker, the journal, caregiver linking, the Baby Monitor, the AI caregiver and all twenty-two places. No card is ever asked for.

  • $4.99a month
    AI Caregiver

    She keeps a long-term memory, reaches out on her own during the day, and starts your bedtime without being asked.

  • $7.99a month
    Pro

    AI-written rules and schedules, thirty days of DM history in the Nursery, four more themes, and the Pro extras in every other place.

  • $14.99a month
    Premium

    All of Pro, DMs kept for good, and full autopilot, which hands her the running of your day.

  • $19.99a month
    Duo

    Premium for two linked accounts on one pledge.

  • $29.99a month
    Nightlight

    Priority in the Parlor, triple weight on feature votes, and a commission credit each month.

Paid through Patreon. A $20 Match Pass opens the Matchmaker's Parlor on any plan: pay once, and it never expires. Every plan in full

Create your space.

A pen name, an email and a password. About two minutes. The rules can wait until you feel like writing them.