Does DDLG or MDLB count, or is it only ABDL?

They all fit. The platform models a caregiver role and a little role and lets you name them whatever you use, including mommy, daddy, nanny, babysitter, baby, little or middle. The diaper and regression features are there if you want them and ignorable if you do not.

Can one caregiver have more than one little?

Yes. A caregiver can hold links with more than one little, and switches between them from their own dashboard. Each little's rules, chores and record stay separate.

What if one of us is a switch?

Switch is a supported role. You choose which side you are on for a given dynamic, and you can change it from your account settings.

Can my caregiver see my journal?

No, unless you choose to share an entry. The private journal is private by default. What a linked caregiver sees is the rules, routines, chores, points and the tracker logs, and there are per-feature controls on top of that.

What happens if we break up?

Either person unlinks from their own account without needing the other. Your own data stays with your own account, and you can export all of it or delete the account entirely from inside the app.

For adults 18+

An app for caregivers and littles

CaregiverBabyHub links two accounts, a caregiver's and a little's, into one shared dynamic. What one of you sets, the other sees. It is built for CGL, DDLG, MDLB and ABDL couples, at any distance, and it is free to use.

Linking the two of you

Each person makes their own account with their own pen name and password. The little generates a six-character pairing code, the caregiver types it in once, and that is the whole setup. No email addresses are exchanged and nobody needs the other's password.

From then on the two accounts are joined. The caregiver gets caregiver tools, the little gets a little's view, and both see the same rules, the same schedule and the same record. Either person can unlink from their own account at any time, on their own, without the other's permission.

What each side gets

The two roles are not the same screen with different colours. They are different tools for different jobs.

The caregiver: A rule and routine builder, chore assignment with approval, a reward store to stock, check-ins and diaper checks that can be sent from anywhere, an inbox of everything waiting on them, and charts of how their little is actually doing over time.
The little: Their rules with a lock showing who set them, today's routine walked through step by step, chores to tick off, points to spend, a private journal, and a tracker with big friendly buttons rather than a form.
Both: A shared calendar, a days-together counter with anniversaries remembered, notes and nudges between the two of you, and a signed contract you built together in the setup wizard.

It updates on both phones

A rule saved by the caregiver appears on the little's screen within moments, locked and marked with who set it. A chore ticked off, a bottle logged, a mood picked, a routine finished: each one shows up on the other side without anyone having to send a message about it.

That is most of the value for couples who are apart. The caregiver does not have to ask how the day went to know how the day went.

Bedtime at 9:30 on weeknights — set by your caregiver
Ask before screens after dinner — set by your caregiver
Water bottle finished twice a day — set by you
Tell your caregiver when you are having a hard day — set by your caregiver

How a linked rule list can look on the little's side. Every example on this page is invented. No member's writing appears here.

Long distance

Everything works the same across time zones. Bedtime routines, goodnight rituals, check-ins and reminders all run on each person's own local time rather than one shared clock, so a caregiver six hours ahead still gets the evening summary at their evening.

There is a monitor feature for listening in at bedtime, voice notes, and messaging, so the parts of the dynamic that usually need to happen in the same room have a version that does not.

Nothing is imposed by the app. The setup wizard walks both of you through roles, limits and rules together, and the result can be signed as a contract you both keep.

Kink-related features are opt-in and off by default. There is a safeword that stops everything, including the AI caregiver. A little can appeal a rule, and the caregiver sees the appeal. Every control has an off switch, and unlinking is always one tap from either side.

Common questions

Does DDLG or MDLB count, or is it only ABDL?: They all fit. The platform models a caregiver role and a little role and lets you name them whatever you use, including mommy, daddy, nanny, babysitter, baby, little or middle. The diaper and regression features are there if you want them and ignorable if you do not.
Can one caregiver have more than one little?: Yes. A caregiver can hold links with more than one little, and switches between them from their own dashboard. Each little's rules, chores and record stay separate.
What if one of us is a switch?: Switch is a supported role. You choose which side you are on for a given dynamic, and you can change it from your account settings.
Can my caregiver see my journal?: No, unless you choose to share an entry. The private journal is private by default. What a linked caregiver sees is the rules, routines, chores, points and the tracker logs, and there are per-feature controls on top of that.
What happens if we break up?: Either person unlinks from their own account without needing the other. Your own data stays with your own account, and you can export all of it or delete the account entirely from inside the app.

Try it

Creating a space is free and asks for a pen name, an email and a password. Your real name is never asked for. The tour walks through the app without an account at all.

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For consenting adults aged 18 and over.